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2020.03.03 06:53

What are you afraid of? for me, I'm afraid of getting hurt again

by someone I love because I have been used and taken advantage of many times by girls throughout my life so now I have a girlfriend and I feel like I'm going to get hurt again and if I do, I'm done with love. Another thing I'm afraid of is people reactions to me showing my face to them because everytime I have show a girl my face she has stop talking to me which is why I refuse to show my face to others because I'm just tired of getting hurt like I'm already going through a lot in my life and have been for a while and the last thing I need is getting criticize for my face once again.
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  • 南玖 2020.03.03 06:54

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    Yes, it's really painful to be hurt by someone you love, but fortunately I haven't experienced it

  • zeooez 2020.03.03 06:57

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    For your face, I just want to say, be confident, let others say what they say, you have to live like you like, don't be unhappy because of others. Someone will always like you and associate with you.

  • 南玖 2020.03.03 06:59

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    No, the mind is more important than the face

  • 欣xin Emily is Emily 2020.03.03 07:00

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    Don't worry, you don't have to feel inferior😊

  • Innocence 2020.03.03 07:00

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    Just do yourself！Everybody in the world has his own values, and someday there will be a man discover it

  • zeooez 2020.03.03 07:01

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    Girls who hurt you feel guilty about themselves, but they just don't like you anymore. In their hearts, everything is based on not being wronged. Cherish the people in front of you, since she has not left you, you should treat her well. Don't think too much, you are afraid of betrayal, others are afraid.

  • Kobe 2020.03.03 07:01

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    @南玖 Well try to tell that to others but it's okay I'm used to suffering.

  • Kobe 2020.03.03 07:02

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    @欣xin Emily is Emily I am inferior and always has been like people treat those with depression and other mental illnesses like subhumans.

  • 欣xin Emily is Emily 2020.03.03 07:05

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    @Kobe Everything's going to be okay. Face life！！！❤️

  • 一个口 ko 2020.03.03 07:17

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    Afraid of, the world

  • 南玖 2020.03.03 07:25

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    @Kobe Some things are already doomed when people are born, like life experience and appearance 。 But some people change in some way 。 Like me Born in an underprivileged family So I want to change through learning。 And i'm not pretty either, but I think there are some ways can improve my temperament 。 If you are not young to go to school, you can learn some skills and crafts。 People sometimes have to be confident, if they are unhappy because they don't look good ， then it's really a big mistake 。 I really hope you can get to know yourself well, not from the outside, but from the heart 。Come On! 💪I translated it with a translator, and there may be a lot of grammatical errors 😂

  • 薇薇 2020.03.03 07:51

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    Don’t worry!life is beautiful

  • Kobe 2020.03.03 07:55

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    How? please tell me how like just because your life is full of joy and happiness doesn't mean everyone else is 😒🤦‍♂️.

  • 薇薇 2020.03.03 07:57

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    @Kobe oh my gosh I didn't mean that, you need to look at the world optimistically

  • Kobe 2020.03.03 08:00

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    @薇薇 How can I? this world is so mess up and corrupt to the point that it makes people want to kill themselves so this world and the people in it are the ones that need to change and for once in their lives, be nice to people like that's not too much to ask for.

  • 南玖 2020.03.03 08:00

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    @Kobe No, my life is also unhappy， But i'm also trying to change, no one's way is all the best's。

  • 薇薇 2020.03.03 08:02

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    @Kobe Can you tell me what happen with you?maybe you can share with me

  • zeooez 2020.03.03 08:02

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    @Kobe You're wrong. I'm not happy. You're dealing with girlfriends and friends. And I, facing my closest family, they can't give me love, they scold me and beat me. But what can I do? I thought about leaving the world, but I can't bear the people who are good to me. In order to repay the people who are good to me, I can only study hard. Family conflicts and academic pressures are pressing on me at the same time. I am thinking about suicide all the time, but I am awake in the next second. It's not easy for everyone in this world. It's really good for you to be good to yourself. Come on, don't be discouraged, don't lose hope in life.

  • 南玖 2020.03.03 08:03

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    Okay, I think we're all alike, but I'm more optimistic, comforting you is like comforting myself

  • Kobe 2020.03.03 08:03

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    @薇薇 No talking won't make a difference at all I'm sick of talking

  • Kobe 2020.03.03 08:04

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    @zeooez Well I'm sorry but I just can't

  • zeooez 2020.03.03 08:05

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    @Kobe Forget it. You'll get over it one day. Anyway, be happy.

  • Kobe 2020.03.03 08:07

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    @zeooez You can't tell someone who is depressed "to get over it" but you know what? You just prove my point and for that I see no purpose in even responding to you anymore 😒🤦‍♂️.

  • 薇薇 2020.03.03 08:08

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    @Kobe I do n’t know what you ’ve experienced, so I do n’t know how to communicate with you, but life is very beautiful, just like you said that life is only one time, so it ’s the best time to live the best !! I do n’t know about you. I can only say that I must be happy all my life, always thinking about unhappy things. You are naturally in a bad mood.

  • Kobe 2020.03.03 08:10

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    Yes I'm in a bad mood rightfully so and you know what? how about we agree to disagree? ok? good

  • 薇薇 2020.03.03 08:15

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    @Kobe If you are in a bad mood, you must find a way to make your mood better. Life still has a good side. If you think about beautiful things, the world will not be so bad. You can

  • zeooez 2020.03.03 08:26

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    @Kobe Sorry

  • Sophie 2020.03.03 08:26

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    Maybe someone's live is not very good. I know I am.But life is not perfect, people is not perfect, everything is not perfect, we need to accept it. That's why we need to look world optimistically. You can change things that you can change to be better.We can't just unhappy to spend our life. Love is important. Maybe you are just have no love to cheat live.Don't be afraid to love. Love，wise and courage will make your life better. Love yourself, love others, love world, love your live. Maybe you can read more books to solve your problem. I really hope you can happy again. Come on, man! 💪👊👍👏🔥

  • 薇薇 2020.03.03 08:26

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    @Kobe no i dont know but i hope you happy everyday

  • Kobe 2020.03.03 08:31

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    @Sophie Yeah but many people especially those who have privilege and happy lives love to paint this picture that everything in this world is so good and fair when it is actually not like it makes me sick to hear elites talk about how this world is so good and pure and fair when all over the world, millions are living in poverty, being bullied and neglect even by their parents, and so on. People wouldn't be depressed or sad if people in this world wasn't so cruel and unfair to them plain and simple.

  • Innocence 2020.03.03 08:33

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    @Kobe Yes,I admit I don't understand you absolutely in your place,but boy,unhappy also want to live a day, happy also want to live a day. So why not live each day happily? Come on!

  • Kobe 2020.03.03 08:34

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    @Innocence You just don't get it but you know what? It's okay don't worry about it forget it

  • Innocence 2020.03.03 08:40

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    @Kobe I don't know say what to comfort you.But I wish you will flee this dilemma!😄😄

  • Sophie 2020.03.03 09:30

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    @Kobe I'm sorry, I don't know your life experience. Sounds is terrible. I know America has a big gap between the rich and the poor. America's social is not perfect. Do you want to go abroad?maybe it's different in other countries. I don't know how to help you because I haven't so much experence.I really hope you will be happy.Keep going,don't give up. Maybe there will be a little different in the future, maybe you will like this world.But all of that you need love yourself.and you can read more books to solve the problem maybe,Ithink.

  • 雏子的笔记 2020.03.03 09:43

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    Girls are very kind, not every girl is bad, do not worry, you and your girlfriend will be very happy.😊

  • 小菜鸟 2020.03.03 10:17

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    Our appearances are born with, we can't change it .But we could accept it ,let others say,it doesn't matter. Hope the world can treat you gently.Because “平庸的我，无趣的我，世间辽阔，也只一个”

  • Kobe 2020.03.03 10:21

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    Well sorry for reacting like a normal human being like how do you expect someone to act if they have been mistreated all their lives? huh? you don't know nothing and that's bs because there are people who have all their lives have live in luxury and happy lives. It makes me sick when they talk about how great life is just because they were born into a wealth family like it's sad and makes me hate human beings even more.

  • Kobe 2020.03.03 10:22

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    @小菜鸟 This world will never change as long as you and me live

  • 雏子的笔记 2020.03.03 10:23

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    @Kobe No, you have to look to the distance, can not only see these, this world has a lot of beautiful things, they have their meaning, my family is not good, but I also live very happy.

  • 丢丢噜啦啦 2020.03.03 10:40

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    I know exactly how you feel right now. There was also a boy severely hurt me so after that I became afraid to pay true. Now I have a new boyfriend. We've been together for almost three months. But I can clearly feel that he does not love me as before. We can't have one person forever.. Come on! Everything will be fine...

  • 薇薇 2020.03.03 11:06

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    @Kobe No, my family is not rich. On the contrary, my family has done something wrong before and almost went to prison. My life is not bad for you, but I am so optimistic that my life will not be too bad. Don't think about your own life like this, OK? Don't regard others' good intentions as disgusting, OK

  • hhhhhhhhh 2020.03.03 11:24

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    I've also been hurt many times by boys.

  • hhhhhhhhh 2020.03.03 11:24

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    Accepting yourself is the greatest confidence.

  • Sophie 2020.03.03 11:44

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    @小菜鸟 cool

  • Coral 2020.03.03 12:25

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    You can show them "I have a lot of flash points, even if I'm not handsome? You can't match me!", And then you can live a new life! Come on! 一一一一一一一 你可以向她们展示你的优点，人生需要经历挫折，但挫折之后必会大放光彩！⛄🌙

  • JiangBo 2020.03.03 13:25

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    I have an inferiority complex.

  • 大熊软糖Fiona 2020.03.26 07:52

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    Are you in love online ？

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