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2019.08.01 03:32

So many girls have asked me what my job and my salary is as their

first question. Is this a normal question in China to ask first?
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  • KZ 2019.08.01 03:34

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    Japan too sometimes😂

  • Melodie 2019.08.01 03:34

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    no, they are the expection.

  • 周雅男 2019.08.01 03:35

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    Not looking at what she wants to be you

  • wow 2019.08.01 03:35

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    If they are interested in you and want to further develop, they will ask, I also feel a little strange. It should be common to ask after confirming the relationship.

  • summer 2019.08.01 03:36

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    that is a normal question in China

  • Lu 2019.08.01 03:36

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    But I think it normal to ask what's your job all over the world.

  • Lu 2019.08.01 03:37

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    Hmmmm.....ask your salary is not a polite question. Just ignore them

  • selina 2019.08.01 03:37

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    工作我可能会问。但薪水不会

  • Hawkeye 2019.08.01 03:38

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    Maybe because they want to get married with you😜😜（It's a common question only in blind dates）

  • iceiiicei 2019.08.01 03:38

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    I think it not there business and it souldn not becom the first conversation to make friend with someone who you just knew 🙄.

  • Alice 2019.08.01 03:38

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    外国人也是这样问我的😜，怎么回事😜

  • Alice 2019.08.01 03:39

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    @wow 为什么？别人做什么工作有什么关系？难以理解

  • Alice 2019.08.01 03:40

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    @selina 工资很高呀😜

  • 四月 2019.08.01 03:40

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    @ 工作我会问，薪水从不问，无论哪国人，这是基本的尊重和隐私，交友必须遵从这原则😁

  • 四月 2019.08.01 03:41

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    @Melodie 我也不问的

  • MarvelFan 2019.08.01 03:41

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    Not really normal in a relationship. But when it comes to getting married, this is indeed something that most people would take into their consideration.

  • Anna 2019.08.01 03:46

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    @iceiiicei Exactly what I thought!haha

  • Emily 2019.08.01 03:46

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    They maybe want you to buy something for them

  • selina 2019.08.01 03:47

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    @Alice 说笑了，吾乃月光族

  • 薛先森 2019.08.01 03:47

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    When u have a blind date, it's normal

  • Alice 2019.08.01 03:48

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    @selina 败家娘们😜

  • selina 2019.08.01 03:49

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    @Alice 😉

  • Zach 2019.08.01 03:50

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    @Lu as a first question though? Instead of what is your name, it’s hi what’s your job

  • 爱斯基摩T 2019.08.01 03:50

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    Job, maybe. But why would asking someone’s salary first a normal thing anywhere... 🤔

  • Zach 2019.08.01 03:51

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    @Alice first question before you ask anything else?

  • Zach 2019.08.01 03:53

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    @MarvelFan i’m not talking about a relationship, I’m talking about people on this app

  • 四月 2019.08.01 03:53

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    @ 有病去吃药吧！

  • TRY 2019.08.01 03:53

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    no

  • miina 2019.08.01 03:56

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    @Zach In Japan, it is very rude to ask in his first question what his salary is.　

  • Maggie 2019.08.01 03:57

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    Ask salary is impolite

  • 爱斯基摩T 2019.08.01 03:57

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    @四月 哈哈哈你好逗 本来想帮你怼回去 一个刷新看到了你的回复😂

  • Sarah Mei 2019.08.01 03:58

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    @Zach no.we don't do that

  • Zach 2019.08.01 03:59

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    @Sarah Mei i’ve been asked this a lot lately

  • Maggie 2019.08.01 03:59

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    @ 我也觉得你有病，估计吃错药了

  • 四月 2019.08.01 04:00

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    @爱斯基摩T 他删，我没，下面回复的姑娘都是有素质的，就不明白那货真的是奇葩！

  • Maggie 2019.08.01 04:00

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    @Zach just ignore them

  • Nia 2019.08.01 04:00

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    Actually it’s not polite to ask this kind of questions

  • 四月 2019.08.01 04:02

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    @Maggie 就算中国人之间做朋友，这些隐私最好别问吧，对吗？他真是💩，还怼我

  • Maggie 2019.08.01 04:04

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    @四月 是的 最基本的礼貌 我的薪水也没必要让别人知道

  • Maggie 2019.08.01 04:05

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    @Zach It's none of their business

  • Spenser 2019.08.01 04:07

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    I think it is impolite to ask this kind of private question unless you are on a blind date

  • Kilo 2019.08.01 04:10

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    job ?pretty much. salary ?never be the first. maybe i would ask after we know each other .

  • Kamal 2019.08.01 04:20

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    Someone asked me the same question. But it seems to be like a fake profile.

  • Lu 2019.08.01 04:24

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    @Zach Haha, that's just weird, sometimes we meet weirdos on the internet. Just Ignore them

  • wow 2019.08.01 05:13

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    @Alice 你觉得有侵犯隐私吗？事实上我想了解一个不认识的人不会太在意工作，也许有些问你的人只是没话聊了，这样他们会觉得有加深印象。

  • Alice 2019.08.01 05:24

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    @wow 我觉得还好吧，不要想太多，或许都是陌生人，然后找个话题聊聊😜

  • moon 月 2019.08.01 06:31

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    😳😳

  • Wine 2019.08.01 07:32

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    Poor u hahahahah

  • May P. Ruanluang 2019.08.02 08:51

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    @Zach Not everyone. I think

  • Niklaus 2019.08.03 08:29

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    nope, that's not polite in China.

  • Lesley 2019.08.04 08:48

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    An American man also asked me about my job and relationship status.

  • Zach 2019.08.04 19:31

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    @Lesley there’s nothing wrong with asking that

  • st-芬妮 2019.08.05 09:18

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    What kind of job is normal, we usually don’t ask salary, it’s personal

  • Zach 2019.08.05 09:24

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    @st-芬妮 yes, asking about work is not a bad question, the problem is when it is the first question asked

  • Lesley 2019.08.13 02:29

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    @Zach but still think there is a little bit offensive

  • Zach 2019.08.13 02:31

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    @Lesley i don’t think it is

  • Lesley 2019.08.13 03:02

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    @Zach okay，wish you have a nice day in this terrible weather day.

  • Zach 2019.08.13 03:06

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    @Lesley i’m sick and working outside 😷

  • Lesley 2019.08.13 03:20

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    @Zach oh it’s so bad. It’s really cold during these days. Keep raining and winding all day.

  • 笑看宛晴天 2019.08.13 10:25

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    l think that it's normal.

  • Zach 2019.08.13 10:27

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    @笑看宛晴天 normal to ask as your first question? “Hi, what’s your job and salary”

  • 廖志發 2019.08.15 04:52

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    @Zach she want you to her husband. Hahaha

  • Zach 2019.08.16 01:37

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    @ I don’t understand what you mean

  • Zach 2019.08.16 01:51

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    I’m confused which girl you’re talking about

  • 笑看宛晴天 2019.08.16 02:07

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    @Zach I'm a student now.'

  • Looktal Pradabdao 2019.09.21 10:38

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    5555. เขาอาจจะอยากคุยแต่ไม่รู้จะถามคำถามอะไรก็ด้าย

  • Zach 2019.09.21 10:40

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    @Looktal Pradabdao ก็มั้ง

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